JGI/Jamie Grill/Getty Images by Richard Nordquist Updated March 10, 2019 Both "I" and "me" are first-person singular pronouns, but they are used in different ways. "I" is a subject pronoun, while "me" is an object pronoun. How to Use "I" "I" is a first-person subject pronoun, which means it is used as the subject of a sentence (the person who is performing an action or being something): I am tired of eating frozen waffles. I went to the library to check out some books. In each of these examples, "I" is the subject of the sentence, the person who is "being" tired and "going" to the library. How to Use "Me" "Me" is a first-person subject pronoun, which means it is the direct or indirect object of an action or of a preposition: Lisa tutored me. The deliveryman handed a package to me. In the first example, the pronoun "me" is the direct object of the verb "tutored"; "me" is not the one tutoring but rather the one being tutored. In the second example, "me" is the object of the preposition "to." The sentence can be rewritten without the preposition by making "me" the direct object of the verb "handed": The deliveryman handed me a package. Examples The best way to know when to use "I" and "me" is to identify whether the word is being used as a subject or an object. If it's the subject of a sentence, the one performing an action or being something, you should use the word "I": After I opened the presents, I was very happy. I asked Jim to help with the project. Samantha and I are taking the tour tomorrow. When you're referring to the object of an action, whether direct or indirect, use the pronoun "me": My mother told me to focus on my studies. The ball came flying through the air and hit me on the head. The weather did not look very pleasant to me. How to Remember the Difference It is usually easy to tell when you should use "I" or "me." Confusion can occur, however, when one of these pronouns is grouped with another noun. Take the following sentence, for example: The officer was looking at Jim and I. To determine if the usage of "I" is correct, all you have to do is take out "Jim" to isolate the first-person pronoun: The officer was looking at I. This is not correct because "I" is not an object pronoun. Because the person is the object of the officer's gaze, we must use the object pronoun "me." The same principle applies to other examples where first-person pronouns are paired or grouped with other nouns: Bill and me are excited to go to the concert. Once we remove "Bill" from this sentence, we see that the use of "me" is incorrect. It's important to remember that when a pronoun is the object of a preposition, you must use an object pronoun. Many people make the mistake of writing "between you and I" when they should write "between you and me." Grammarist Mignon Fogarty says the former is a common example of hypercorrection, the result of people trying too hard to write correctly and using grammatical rules in places where they don't apply. "I" and "Me" After Forms of the Verb "Be" In Early Modern English—the language spoken by Shakespeare and others—"I" and "me" were sometimes used interchangeably after the verb "be." One example, as scholars John Algeo and Thomas Pyles point out, occurs in Shakespeare's "Twelfth Night," where the character Sir Andrew Aguecheek says, "That's mee I warrant you...I knew 'twas I." "That's me" uses the object pronoun "me," while "'twas I" uses the subject pronoun "I." Both statements, however, are versions of the same syntactical construction: That/it is/was me/I. Strict grammarians insist that the verb "to be" must be followed by a subject pronoun; however, the object pronoun "me" is frequently used in standard English. While "It is I" is usually technically correct, you are more likely to hear the expression "It's me." The latter is grammatically correct, however, when the pronoun is followed by a relative clause that identifies the pronoun as the object of an action. For example: It's me who was really hurt by your reckless behavior. "Me" is correct in this instance because it is the object of the verb "hurt." Sources

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October as official month By Lahle Wolfe

Updated January 14, 2019

If you're Italian-American, if you're a ​cookbook author, or, if you're a country music artist, then October is the month for you. That's because October is National Italian-American Heritage Month, Cook Book Author Month, and Country Music Month, as well as (the more serious) National Cholesterol Month. The United States is very prolific at creating "national month" events. In addition to businesses (from major corporations to local ma and pa shops) numerous worthwhile organizations and special interest groups establish a promotion during a calendar month to get their name and message out to the public.

In addition to fostering awareness, creating a national month designation is an excellent way to celebrate a nationality, a religion, an interest, or a cause. 

While you may not want to hug a "Texas chef" or believe that vegetarian and pork lovers should celebrate their food preference in different months, you'll definitely find something in October to celebrate or pay attention to.

The following events are observed every year for the entire calendar month.

October Is "National Month" Calendar

• All American Breakfast Month
• Better Breakfast Month
• Computer Learning Month
• Cook Book Month
• Country Music Month
• Disability Employment Awareness Month
• Diversity Awareness Month
• Emergency Care Month
• Family History Month
• German-American Heritage Month
• Gourmet Adventures Month
• Hunger Awareness Month
• Hug a Texas Chef Month
• Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual History Month
• Mom & Apple Pie Month
• National AIDS Awareness Month
• National Apple Month
• National Applejack Month
• National Book Fair Month
• National Car Care Month
• National Caramel Month

• National Collegiate Alcohol Awareness Month
• National Cookie Month
• National Cosmetology Month
• National Country Ham Month
• National Depression Education and Awareness Month
• National Dessert Month
• National Health Care Food Service Month
• National Hispanic Heritage Month (Mexico): September 15th-October 15th
• National Kitchen and Bath Month
• National Pasta Month
• National Pickled Peppers Month
• National Pizza Month
• National Popcorn Poppin' Month
• National Pork Month
• National Pretzel Month
• National Restaurant Hospitality Month

• National Seafood Month
• National Stamp Collecting Month (Canada)
• National Biscuit Month
• National Breast Cancer Awareness Month
• National Chicken Month
• National Cholesterol Awareness Month
• National Courtesy Month
• National Disability Employment Awareness Month
• National Hispanic Month
• National Honey Month
• National Italian-American Heritage Month
• National Mental Illness Awareness Month
• National Mushroom Month
• National Organic Harvest Month
• National Papaya Month (also, June)
• National Piano Month
• National Potato Month
• National Rice Month

• National Roller Skating Month
• National Sight Saving Month
• National Spinach-Lovers' Month
• National Toilet Tank Repair Month
• Polish-American Heritage Month
• Self-Improvement Month
• Vegetarian Awareness Month
• Women of Achievement Month
• Women's History Month (Canada)

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Prepare for National Cybersecurity Awareness Month

09/30/2019 05:09 PM EDT

Original release date: September 30, 2019

October is National Cybersecurity Awareness Month (NCSAM), which is a collaborative effort between the Cybersecurity and Infrastructure Security Agency (CISA) and its public and private partners—including the National Cyber Security Alliance (NCSA)—to ensure every American has the resources they need to stay safe and secure online while increasing the resilience of the Nation against cyber threats. This year’s theme, “Own IT. Secure IT. Protect IT.,” focuses on promoting personal accountability and positive behavior when it comes to cybersecurity.

CISA encourages organizations to see the NCSAM 2019 webpage and the NCSAM 2019 Toolkit

Paul, every year millions of Americans find themselves unable to vote because they miss a registration deadline, don’t update their registration, or aren’t sure how to register.

Our partners at Vote Forward have made it easy to contact historically under-represented, not-yet-registered voters living in key 2020 swing states to provide them with everything they need to register to vote.

Click the link to set up an account or sign in, then scroll down to the second row of options and choose one of the campaigns that includes voter registration forms.

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air gapping

Air gapping is a security measure that involves physically isolating a computer or network to prevent it from connecting directly or wirelessly to other systems that can connect to the Internet. Air gapping is used to protect many types of critical systems, including those that support the stock market, the military, the government and industrial power industries. To prevent unauthorized data extrusion through electromagnetic or electronic exploits, there must be a specified amount of space between the air-gapped system and outside walls and between its wires and the wires for other technical equipment. In the United States, the U.S. National Security Agency TEMPEST project provides best practices for using air gaps as a security measure. For a system with extremely sensitive data, a Faraday cage can be used to prevent electromagnetic radiation (EMR) escaping from the air-gapped equipment. Although such measures may seem extreme, van Eck phreaking can be used to intercept data such as key strokes or screen images from demodulated EMR waves, using special equipment from some distance away. Other proof-of-concept (POC) attacks for air- gapped systems have shown that electromagnetic emanations from infected sound cards on isolated computers can be exploited and continuous wave irradiation can be used to reflect and gather information from isolated screens, keyboards and other computer components. As of this writing, the Defense Advanced Research Projects Agency (DARPA) is awarding grants for prototype hardware and software designs that will keep sensitive data physically isolated. The grants are made possible under the Guaranteed Architecture for Physical Security (GAPS) program. Enhancing air-gapped security measures The problem with physical separation as a security technique is that, as complexity increases in some system or network to be isolated, so does the likelihood that some unknown or unauthorized external connection will arise. Perhaps the most important way to protect a computing device or network from an air gap attack is through end user security awareness training. The infamous Stuxnet worm, which was designed to attack air-gapped industrial control systems, is thought to have been introduced by infected thumb drives found by employees or obtained as free giveaways. The software-defined perimeter (SDP) framework is another tool network engineers can use to create a type of "virtual air gapping" through policy enforcement. SDP requires external endpoints that want to access internal infrastructure to comply with authentication policies and ensures that only authenticated systems can see internal IP addresses.

In my books, noted below, I often lament about the lack of civility, deterioration of written communication and abuse of the power of the Internet. Electronic communication, in my opinion, breeds negativity and behavior which does not exist in direct communication. 

The following is an except from my first book which addresses angry email replies.

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